Domestic Violence And Depression

These are my thoughts regarding domestic violence for domestic violence month: More and more people are reporting occurrences of domestic violence to the police. If you are a victim of domestic violence you will know just how frightening it can be. The question that lots of people ask is what are the causes of this violence, is the individual simply an or are there other reasons behind it. According to the most recent reports alcohol has a big part to play in leading to cases of domestic violence. In the example of a husband striking his wife when he is intoxicated, this is normally what can occur. For the sake of making this post much easier to check out, I will call the other half John and his wife Linda. John is an actually nice guy when sober. Linda is quite in love with him and hopes that they will grow old together.

John is a fantastic dad to their 2 children, is helpful around the house and is a great cook. The problem takes place after he has had rather excessive to consume. John now becomes a whole different individual, he begins to accuse his spouse of having an affair, ends up being abusive and extremely argumentitive. Linda realising he is intoxicated efforts to leave to leave John to his bad mood, this only adds however to his anger and he starts to end up being violent. The next early morning John can not think what he has actually done and has lots of regret and regret. He can not say sorry sufficient and begs for Linda's forgiveness. He guarantees that it will never happen once again and mentions that he will quit the alcohol if that would make his spouse delighted. Linda is unsure what to do, she would enjoy to forgive and forget but feels that it is most likely that it only take place once again in the future if she does.

In a lot of cases individuals like Linda will forgive their partner or hubby a variety of times before ultimately losing persistence with them. My advice for John would be to stop drinking alcohol instantly. This appears to be the reason for all of these problems, therefore you require to find something else to have an interest in. Another cause of domestic violence is understood to be anxiety. Some individuals who are typically very unwinded can become very mad and violent when in a deep state of anxiety. They can take their issues and frustrations out on their partner much like in the example above. A few days or weeks later when the person in concern is feeling a lot happier, they will not think what they have actually done. Whether it is since of anxiety or alcohol, one option to this domestic violence problem might be to attend some kind of anger management program, that is for individuals like John.